Gender identity is a deeply personal and individual experience that may or may not align with the sex assigned at birth. It's important to respect people's gender identities and the pronouns they use. This guide aims to help you understand the diverse range of gender identities and pronouns in the LGBTQ+ community and how you can show respect for people's identities.
A cisgender person is someone whose gender identity matches the sex they were assigned at birth. For example, a person assigned female at birth who identifies as a woman is cisgender.
A transgender person is someone whose gender identity differs from the sex they were assigned at birth. For example, someone assigned male at birth but identifies as female is a transgender woman, while someone assigned female at birth but identifies as male is a transgender man.
Non-binary people don’t identify strictly as male or female. They may identify as both, neither, or somewhere along a gender spectrum. Non-binary individuals may use a variety of pronouns, including they/them or others.
Genderfluid people experience a gender identity that shifts or changes over time. They may identify as different genders at different times, such as male, female, both, or neither.
Agender individuals do not identify with any gender. They may describe themselves as gender-neutral or having no gender at all.
Two-Spirit is a term used by some Indigenous cultures in North America to describe a person who embodies both masculine and feminine qualities. The term reflects spiritual and cultural traditions, and its meaning can vary across different Indigenous communities.
Pronouns are words used to refer to people in place of their names. The pronouns a person uses can align with their gender identity, and it's essential to use them respectfully.
"They/them" pronouns are often used by non-binary individuals. For example: "They are going to the store" or "I spoke with them earlier."
"He/him" pronouns are typically used by individuals who identify as male or masculine. For example: "He is going to the store" or "I spoke with him earlier."
"She/her" pronouns are typically used by individuals who identify as female or feminine. For example: "She is going to the store" or "I spoke with her earlier."
"Ze" (pronounced "zee") and "hir" (pronounced "here") are gender-neutral pronouns that some non-binary individuals prefer to use. For example: "Ze is going to the store" or "I spoke with hir earlier."
Some individuals may use other pronouns, such as "ey/em" or "they" in plural form. It's important to ask someone their preferred pronouns rather than assuming.
Pansexuality refers to the attraction to individuals regardless of their gender. Pansexual people may find themselves attracted to individuals across all gender identities, including male, female, non-binary, or genderfluid.
Bisexuality refers to the attraction to more than one gender. A bisexual person may be attracted to both men and women, or other gender identities.
Asexuality refers to the lack of sexual attraction to others. Some asexual individuals may still experience romantic attraction, while others may not.
Using someone's correct pronouns is an essential aspect of showing respect and support. It affirms their identity and helps create an inclusive environment where everyone can feel comfortable. If you're unsure of someone's pronouns, it's okay to ask politely.
Respecting others' identities and pronouns is an important step toward fostering understanding and inclusivity in society.